Thank You for sharing this Perry. I appreciate your consideration of everyone in the equation when you decided not to publish or share about it. There really isn’t a lot of information out there regarding sex after GRS, so it does matter what we write and how it’s written.
It’s interesting that your girlfriend asked you to be her first. I had a few close male friends offer, and I certainly considered it, but I feel fortunate that my “virginity “ was given to someone I’m romantically involved with. I do however, support and appreciate the role you played for your friend. It’s a big scary thing to share with someone, and it’s really important that it is done with someone you trust.
So, gratitude to you for your kindness and consideration towards your friend as well as myself and my Trans sisters who have dared make this part of the passage.