My daughter and I talk daily. Much of this we have already discussed. Some parts I don’t get into because I am careful about her relationship with her mother. I haven’t felt it makes much sense to undermine her other parent in order to improve my status. My daughter sees me through my words and actions as does my son. Time has demonstrated who I am and how much I care for my children. They see both parents for who they are without the necessity of the gory details.