I’m so glad you wrote this! I often wonder how my Trans brothers are experiencing all the hate and Transphobia that is largely and primarily directed at us, the Trans women. I also understand your desire to remain invisible, since I too have that privilege. As far as the uterus question is concerned, I stand with the rights of all who possess one to equally decide what to do with it. I’m often assumed to have one, and it’s not difficult to imagine the violation of being told how to manage it.
I appreciate your perspective and look forward to reading more!